Expats families relocating to the US may be familiar with the bureaucratic and administrative side of sending their children to American schools. But how will American culture influence your child’s education?

Many expats are surprised to find that the values American teachers are trying to teach may be different from their own. Expats who understand the  classroom culture and who have regular communication with the school will be better equipped to handle cultural differences and conflicts as they arise. 

Inside the classroom
The American classroom is often more informal than many expats are used to in their home country. Students often work in groups and classroom conversation is normal. Students are encouraged to ask questions, express individual opinions, and think creatively. Rote learning is limited. Class participation is highly valued and considered in grading. Children do not get homework every night, and in elementary school, they rarely get homework on the weekend.

What if I’m unhappy with my child’s school or teacher?
Speak up!  You can request a meeting with the teacher to discuss concerns. Come prepared with specific issues to discuss and the changes/results you would like to see. Express your concerns directly but politely. If you cannot resolve the issue with the teacher, you should make an appointment with the principal to discuss the problem.

Get involved!
For the expat’s trailing spouse, getting involved in your child’s school is a great way to learn about the culture, prevent isolation, meet other parents, and find out about your child’s classroom activities. Join the PTA, attend parent/teacher conferences, and volunteer for class and school activities.